Three little
One, do petty thing more, talk about broadness talking less
Experience world the duty field new personality at the beginning of often is passion is full of, huhu is angry, determination does the model of important matter course of study one time. But however often oversight a such facts, gave school gate may not to be able to do a “ white-collar ” immediately, want to do important matter line of business, want to have high starting point, this is right, but should make step by step, regard field of a duty as new personality, holding in the arms do more a bit, learn the state of mind of a bit more, much hit water from such as, sweep the floor, such trivial issue makes cent paper, facilitate the image that establishs oneself, become one with easily with everybody, establish the concept that bears the blame for reality, talk about a few things that reach for what is beyond one's grasp less to be able to let the person all round feel to child can teach, have doubt modest consult to them, they can dispel misgivings patiently. Do petty thing more, talk about broadness talking less, this is one house does not sweep so called “ , why to sweep the world ” .
2, consult to other more, little haste makes known his position
The duty field new personality that just walks out of a school gate is the deadliest is him overrate, other of look down upon. Actually, experience world at the beginning of, do not understand a society very much, do not be familiar with the characteristic of all trades and professions very much, do not understand oneself to be in the detailed program that the unit runs and complex human relation more, so, encounter a problem not to understand outfit understand, do sth without authorization makes conclusions, make known his position hastily, much should modester the opinion that listens to others, little publish oneself arbitrary opinion, have such the first situation that you just strode human relation formally only, everybody just can unite you advance together. Consult to other more, little haste makes known his position, this is modesty of so called “ makes the person progresses, pride makes a person backward ” .
3, the books and periodicals that sees directive life more, review the reading matter with elementary and low nondescript less
Arrive from person of a campus the change of person of a society, new personality of field of not little job may appear ” of “ society scared terrified, get used to complex society hard, lane is bad to can comment rear by the person, stamp backbone, by the person desolate aside, at one's convenience your indulge in self-admiration. At present socially such as affection ah love ah the books and periodicals with the elementary and low nondescript such as the novel is very popular, if love to see such books and periodicals, do not have a bit advantage to the job and career, often can bring the youth to wrong road. Should read a few books and newspaper that how handle human relation, magazine more at ordinary times so had better, can subscribe to like post office for instance " experience world at the beginning of " , " be an upright person with conduct oneself in society " , Xin Huashu inn can buy " wisdom lives " , " turn round life lost game " etc, the content that such books and periodicals publishs is the lesson after people loses more, the experience after the success, read more read can make the youth takes roundabout way less, take shortcut more. See the books and periodicals of directive life more, review the reading matter with elementary and low nondescript less, this is so called “ his Shan Zhishi, can attack jade ” .
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